Book cover featuring a man with glasses and a woman hugging a service dog, with the title 'Blood Doesn't Make You Family' and subtitle about family, forgiveness, and peace. The author's name, Allen Dekeyser, is at the bottom.

Blood Doesn’t Make You Family is a book about truth, betrayal, and finding home in the people who show up when it matters most. This book doesn’t shy away from the ugly. It holds it up to the light and dares it to flinch.

Through real events, raw letters, and hard-earned healing, Allen opens up about his personal journey — from being shut out and let down, to building a new kind of family with Marqueta, Harley, Pebbles, and Fendi.

It’s not about revenge. It’s about reclaiming your worth, no matter who failed you. It’s about drawing the line between love and loyalty — and choosing yourself when others won’t.

You don’t have to carry guilt that’s not yours. You don’t have to break just because they didn’t believe you. And you’re not alone.

💥 Inside This Book:

  • Real-life letters from the edge of grief, anger, and awakening

  • Reflection prompts to help you unpack your own story

  • A bonus chapter: “What Healing Looks Like Now”

  • A place to write your own letter to the one who hurt you

  • Scripture and affirmations that remind you of your worth

  • Reader testimonials from others who walked away from toxic ties